Tuesday, March 23, 2010

Domestic Violence..

Hello Everyone..God Bless You...

Love Does Not Want What Belongs To Others..
Do You Act In Gods Wonderful Character..

Domestic Violence is never happy with what it has, it goes into the world and looks for more then what it has, but finds that others will not tolerate what they want so it is then taken back into the home where it is usually hidden from others. A partner of domestic violence is always being compared to someone or something else and this in turn is put upon the partner as something they are not providing or doing in the marriage/relationship, never being good enough, never doing all they can to contribute to the marriage/partnership..usually it is the abused partner that does most of the common things that have to be done in this partnership..they get overworked from trying harder then the mind and body allows, tiring quickly and become weary and fatigued on a regular bases, they feel that there is not enough time required to do all that needs to be done which adds to their frustration. Being compared to other , father, mothers, sons, daughters etc reminds them that they are not putting all effort into the partnership which is the portrayal of the abusing partner.

Do You say I wish You would dress better then John or Jane ..they look so good all the time..
Do You say if You worked harder or had a better job we could afford more then what we have.
Do You become jealous or envious of others of what they have and share with others.
Do You tell Your Partner that You wish they were more like so and so.
Do you tell them that they are bad mothers,father, sons,daughter compared to their friends.
Do You expect them to do things the way others do and in the same time frames and fashion.
Do You insult their minds and bodies and make them feel they should and could be better.
Do You tell them staying home taking care of the family is not difficult and they should find other work to help out in money situations.


Being compared to others is a very hurtful situation and the abused partner will withdraw from the people, place and things they are being compared to, leaving them alone within themselves and takes away friendships and means that they could use to help them in their lives..most domestic abused partners will withdraw from family and friends because they feel they are not good enough to be with others to whom they are compared..


Walk with Christ..be happy with what You have, it is not gold or silver that will sustain Your Soul, but Good Sound Security in what You have..Blessings are not in material things or the way we look or the way others choose to live their lives..Walking in Christ is being an Individual who can make their own choices of what they are and what they want to be and do with their life. Being confident in knowing that they are doing the best they can as mothers, fathers, family and friends and that they are confident in the security they have in all things around them..being happy with what they have. No one else knows what goes on behind closed doors of neighbors and friends that we can compare each other too, always believe and be secure in what you are doing regardless of what others may think or say, count Your Blessings that is where Security in Oneself is At.

Praise Jesus, He is the Truth, the Way, the Light
In Jesus Love Your Sister In Christ Betty Jean..


 

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