Hello Everyone...God Bless You....
The Bible tells us that we are to Love our Partners as Christ Loves the Church...well that sure is a big act to follow....but is it really...when we walk down the isle with Hopes, Inspirations, Dreams and Visions of Happily Ever after , it doesnt always turn out that way...lately right in my own House (all those I Love in my life) I have seen how marriages started out with High Hopes but as time passes the honeymoon period ends and real life sets in with its demands, financial problems, children who don't act as we dreamed they would..so we seem to let the problems of life dictate how we treat each other...Yes this is a difficult world to conquer but it can be done , but not without the help of Our Heavenly Father and the Principals that He has set down for us , in His Book of Life...
When we have Accepted the Gift of Salvation from our Heavenly Father, we must , with all of our might fall into the Principals He has set out for us..if we don't , our lives will not change and our struggles, fears and trials turn us into people who we are ashamed of and who act out of shame and disgrace rather than the Fruits of the Spirit + God has sent to help us Renew Our Souls, Minds, Bodies and Way of Life..Does God stop us from going through these things, no but doing things His Way makes the daily grind and misery that can happen in our lives...so much more easier using the Example of His Love...We Can Walk In Gods Love Daily and Be , Love, Peace, Forgiveness, Patience, Healed, Have Compassion, Self Control, Use Edification, Generosity, Kindness, Tenderness, Long-suffering, Endurance, Faith, Joy and Happiness..these are the things that make Love and Life Work...
I am going to speak frank and ask are you mistreating Your Partner ? the Love of Your Life, are You letting the hardships of Life control You that your partner/mate lives in the fear, neglect, abuse, anger, helplessness, loneliness, shame, withdrawal...are you doing this and not realizing the damage it is doing...sooner or later that partner will leave you, there is no other way for them to survive, then getting out of the situation and trust me they will go, it is just a matter of time...I have shared testimony with you on this blog of how abuse in relationships can and will change the situation , for the person being abused, yes abused, that is what it is..there is no other word for it ...""Now is the Time, Today is the Time, To Stop the Anguish and Hurt You are Putting Upon Your Partner...
Are You Angry....then call Upon the Spirit of God who will ( with Your Discipline and Practice ) give you back the Love You and Your Partner shared in the Youth of Your Partnership..Make Up Your Mind today !, too take the angry , face the fear of that anger with Gods help, get things of the past out of the darkness where they lay in wait to take your happiness , peace and all that You Love, only You can change Yourself...no one can do this for You...it must be You..and You alone that makes these changes...if you as a partner are in the situation and feeling neglected, abused, unloved dont keep it to yourself, talk to your partner if it can be done safely, if that is not so, find someone whom you trust and talk with them...call the church and set up an appointment with the church clergy to get this off of your heart, out of the darkness and into the Light..talk to Your Doctors, there are many Organizations out there to help get back your Individuality and Your life...
In the next posting we will cover all of the aspects of domestic violence.. "Stop", "Convict Yourself to see if you are affecting your partner/mate with this evil negative ruination of good brothers and sisters of Gods Love"....then take the, Yes, difficult steps of getting back the Ones You Love...
"IN GOD ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE THINK ON THESE THINGS...Praise the Lord...He Will Show You The Way And Provide All You Require To Turn Your Life Around...and Take You From darkness to the Light....
Praise Jesus, He is the Way, the Light, the Truth...
In Jesus Love Your Sister in Christ Betty Jean...
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