Domestic Violence..

Hello Everyone God Bless You..

Love does Not brag...

In domestic violence situation the abusing partner will often brag or boast to make the other person feel less important as a way to control the actions, social activities , job, hobbies etc. this makes the person feel that the provisions and contributions in the marriage/partnership are not as important as the other what the other partner provides.

Do You say, I am the one who make the most and important money in this marriage/partnership.
Do You say, if it wasnt for my contribution we would not have what we do.
Do You say, if it wasnt for me we wouldnt be going on vacation, driving a new car.
Do You say the children depend on me because You are always to busy to be with them.
Do You say I am always dressed nice but you always seem to look sloppy.
Do You tell them if it wasnt for You they would have nothing..
Do You Brag to feel self important and more the dominate partner in the marriage/partnership.


Christ Way of Walking is to once again edify the partner to the importance of their contribution to the relationship no matter how small or insignificant it may seem, I see this happen in my house with mothers/fathers who choose to stay home and raise the children, the other  partner can trivialize the importance of such a task. Of all the jobs on the this Earth God made it one of the most important in His teachings, God So Loved the World He Gave His " Only Begotton Son."  Family is top priority for God and this scriptures shows just this. Although it is important to have financial security in a marriage/partnership money is not of the most valuable, teachings of love, values, loyalty, patients, kindness , forgiveness, etc, are what makes the Individuality of the family unit. This is Gods way enjoying what we have rather then boasting of what and how we got it..


Praise Jesus, He is the Truth, the Light ,the Way
In Jesus Love Your Sister In Christ Betty Jean..