Evil...Domestic Violence

Hello Everyone...God Bless You...

Love Is Kind...warm, tender, loving, giving unselfishly,edification...
Are You This Wonderful Character of God...

Domestic Violence is never Kind..although it may say kind things it is never backed up in loyalty , trust or dependence...what is usually promised to the partner of domestic violence is usually not delivered..although at the time the person afflicting it may really believe that themselves, but when the time comes the partners, feelings, aspirations are usually forgotten..

The domestic violent person actually feels sorry at the time of certain incidents they do not hold that sorrow for long..as you see in situations where after abusing the partner, grave sorrow is announced by the person to the partner.. example..it will never happen again, profess their life, their fears of life without the partner..their total devoted love for that part, what that person thinks is Love and Kindness is the way the violent partner moves on from the situation without dealing with their own feelings..

Do you profess Your Love one hour and the next yell because something you considered important is not done...
Do you say , Yes I understand to Your partner when You really dont feel its that important.
Do You make plans and cancel for others things that you would like to do which seem more of a priority.
Do You say unkind words about your partner to others and blame them for all the problems,trial and disappointments in the relationship.
Do You say You will stand by them, only to not be available when they really need you ,while you do things You feel are more important.
Are you rude or call the person stupid, winy, or trivialize what they do or say.
Are You actually thinking of other things when Your partner is involved in conversation with you.


As You see domestic violence covers a wide range of emotions, and the partner who is subjected to these can become , withdrawn, not feel like an individual , depressed and can shut down all feelings and copes by depending  on the domestic violent partner instead of there own individuality..


Walking the Way of Christ is to Walk in Kindness, again Edification is the right direction to take with your partner , tell them of Your Love often, remember to stop before anger sets in, and walk away...I always try my best with this motto...If You Don't Have Something Good To Say Don't Say Anything...Stay Silent...build on the wonderful attributes Your partner has..tell them You are Honoured with their dedication to the marriage/partnership, that you respect their ideas and morals, that you appreciate how hard they work, a career, being a wife, a mother, a sister, a brother, a son, a daughter..a father, a friend.
In All Things Edify Your Partner and Make All the Good Things Stand Out to Each Other.

Praise Jesus, He is the Light, the Way, the Truth..
In Jesus Love Your Sister In Christ Betty Jean..