Tuesday, March 23, 2010

Evil....Domestic Violence...

Hello Everyone...God Bless You....

Domestic Violence comes in many different ranges and disguises, You may not even realize what is happening as domestic violence never lets a person stop or see the good side of life...there is always more problems , more trials, more suffering, more abuse, more unforgiveness , domestic violence is always violence covered up by reasoning's of this is not happening...with some serious sit down alone time we need to take a good look at what we are doing and not rationalize that what is happening is not that bad or "not happening at all....

Here is list of how domestic violence rears its Ugly Head..take Your time reading these and if you even have one of them...it is still domestic violence wither you want to admit it or not...

Domestic Violence is a Way of Control over Your Partner no matter what shape it takes...

1.....Love is Patience... sustaining trouble, persevering 
       , quality of endurance,
       ..Are You this Wonderful Character of God...

       If you are not walking in Patience,
       you cannot be walking in love...
       Do You tear down Your Partner with Ugly Words,
       Swearing, Screaming, Insulting , Out of Control Anger ?
       Do You spend most of the time , all about You not
       taking consideration for Your Partner?
       Are You impatience , wanting things done right now,
       with no regard for Your Partners concern?
       Do You interrupt Your Partner because You feel what they have
       to say is not Important to you?
       Do You share Your Feelings and Your Life but
       have no concern for theirs?
       Do You have Impatience with their friends, family, 
       hobbies, jobs, feelings and emotions?
       Do You say we will talk about this later and never find that time?
       Do all the things You do together the things you
       would like and not theirs?
       Do You Dominate Conversations and leave
       Your Partner without a Say?

This list are just some of the components of Domestic Abuse when it comes to being Patience with Your Partner...make the time to sit down over a tea/coffee without distractions, activate Your ears when Your Partner is talking to You and even if it is boring, be Patience and Listen to Their Words.
Talk about the hard things of partnership but don't leave the conversation there, profess Your Love, Your Respect for Your Partner when the conversation is over..use Edification,  tell them that You are sorry for all the things that have happened in the past and with Faith, Hope and Trust, reassure them that no matter what the problems are , that as Partners  the two of You  will work things out for the best in all trials and troubles that shall come...show them they can Trust...
Practise Patience.....Your Relationship Will Be Rewarded In A Changing Loving Way....

Praise Jesus , He is the Light, the Way, the Truth..
In Jesus Love Your Sister In Christ Betty Jean.. 

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