Domestic Violence..

Hello Everyone God Bless You...

Love does not keep track of other peoples wrongs..

Awesome Walk it Takes in Christ to do this..

Domestic Violence seems to thrive on this one, keeping track of our partners wrongs, is very unforgiving and hurtful to the other partner. The past the past the naughty past, there is nothing more fearful then hearing things that have been done in the past, this usually has a lot to do with past hurts, rejections, arguments, mistakes etc. We all make mistakes and when we do I believe we should learn from them, forgive all involved and move on. But it really is not that easy and many, many arguments between partners is over the wrongs done to each other.  Conversations and disagreements can start on a normal subject but quickly change to the wrongs we have done to each other, bringing to mind all the hurtful situations that have happened in the past rehashing and reliving  it as it was at the time. Many marriage/partnerships have been dissolved because the past did not remain in the past and forgiveness for the situation was just a, at the time occurrence. If full forgiveness was not done at the time of wrong it will come up in mostly all future situations. Nothing can stir up anger , frustration more then remembering all the wrongs ...

Do You have Unforgiveness in Your heart for the situation/mistakes etc that Your partner made. 
When serious discussion are being talked about, do you go back and rehash the past wrongs.
Do You say You have forgiven the partner but it still frustrates and continues to play upon you.
Do You say to Your partner that the wrongs are not forgiven when at the time, you said they were.
Do You say the past wrongs are just examples of the real person Your partner is .
Do You use the wrongs to dominate and win the argument with your partner .
Do You use the wrongs to change the real subject you dont want to discuss.


Christ Walked in Forgiveness, when ask about forgiving seven times, the Lord said forgive not seven but seventy time seven, this telling us just how important forgiveness is. We cannot change our past and this haunts many, many marriage/partnerships and can bring them to ruin. It takes a lot of practice and discipline to carry forgiveness in our hearts and to keep forgiving others for the wrongs they have committed. I have forgiven people many times for the wrongs they have done against me, this is not easy and I do not believe we can really truly forgive without the help of Our Heavenly Father. It helps to forgive if you keep the scriptures that Christ taught in our minds, and when un forgiveness sneaks in and tries to upset or blame others for wrongs, our Spirit will remember them and bring them to mind.  We all make mistakes , we all have things in our pasts that hurt us deeply and it is important that we not only forgive others, but to also forgive ourselves for the wrongs we have done to others. We are not alone in having wrongs done to us or done by us to others and I do not believe there is one person on this world that has not had to deal with the past.
Make forgiveness your top priority and walk the talk, if you said you forgive, make sure with practice and discipline that you have. When you truly have forgiven it will not come back to haunt you when you least expect it to.


Praise Jesus , He is the Way, the Truth, the Light
In Jesus Love Your Sister In Christ Betty Jean.